Love, such a mystery to behold and yet never understood by people unless they experience it. Everyone knew a kind of love from the very beginning of their life, their parents, unless they were abandoned and orphaned to begin with. Others still continue to seek love and thus obtain the next stage, friendly love. The last but not the least is the love each person seeks and is destined with in order to feel complete happiness in life, the love of a partner. This feeling is not the same amongst people. Some love are mistaken ones and others are wrong ways of loving.
How can it be determined whether their feeling is true love or not? It is a bit complicated to explain since this feeling varies depending on the circumstances and types of people who experiences it. I myself cannot explain it in full detail. Love can be determined by a series of tests and challenges. These challenges can either be natural or the person himself/herself utilizes it. It's up to the person whether it will test the partner's patience, faithfulness, etc.
One can determine if it is true love by asking oneself if he/she loves his/her partner. Asking the advice of parents and friends are good ways to determine it as well. If it took a long time but still you had this feeling then it might be true love. Love does not depend on looks or behavior of an individual. One must know true love from one's heart with no lies and no questions.
Saturday, July 11, 2009
Blessings and Disasters
Blessings are considered a gift or a miracle to behold. It gives the satisfaction a person is looking for. This gift is also a contrast of a curse, disaster. A disaster can bring forth unpleasant events that can turn one's life depending on its aftermath. Having a blessing also follows a disaster. The higher the achieved blessing, sometimes there is a great disaster that follows. There must be a balance between good and bad events in order for man's life to continue being molded and being challenged.
Obtaining success in life is a blessing in and itself. An example of it is that a person obtains a large amount of money by working. He obtained a lot of money but then disaster will soon follow. He can either spend it immediately, his bills arrived and needs to be payed or worst, he gets robbed. Sometimes people refer to that blessings are disasters in one's life. This belief depends on the person who experiences it.
People immediately blame someone or something whenever they experienced misfortune. They blame their blessing upon the disaster they are experiencing. One must not do this because a blessing is but temporary or one will enjoy too much for life. Disasters come to return ourselves into the state of equilibrium again so that we can proceed in life just like others, in a fair and simple way. Life itself is a challenge one must overcome and no one gets the upper hand or the misfortunes of life alone.
Obtaining success in life is a blessing in and itself. An example of it is that a person obtains a large amount of money by working. He obtained a lot of money but then disaster will soon follow. He can either spend it immediately, his bills arrived and needs to be payed or worst, he gets robbed. Sometimes people refer to that blessings are disasters in one's life. This belief depends on the person who experiences it.
People immediately blame someone or something whenever they experienced misfortune. They blame their blessing upon the disaster they are experiencing. One must not do this because a blessing is but temporary or one will enjoy too much for life. Disasters come to return ourselves into the state of equilibrium again so that we can proceed in life just like others, in a fair and simple way. Life itself is a challenge one must overcome and no one gets the upper hand or the misfortunes of life alone.
Pleasure
Pleasure, a sensation a person can attain by doing certain things. It depends upon the person whether it will be considered a pleasure or disaster. It can ease one's feeling upon attaining such state of feeling. Pleasure can be a positive or a negative feeling depending on how a peson looks at it. It can't be accurate but some misfortunes can lead to the state of pleasure.
Pleasure among good people is a simple thing. They can see if a person has attained the state of pleasure if he/she is satisfied on his/her life. Having friends who can be trusted gives pleasure and enjoyment as well. Having attained a lot of success is a form of pleasure as well. These things given helps a person attain the pleasures of life. But some people enjoy the misfortune of others as a form of pleasure.
Pleasure from misfortune are deeds appreciated only by people who had a grudge or anger against the person involved. Upon achieving misfortune, the person who got a deep grudge or vengeance against him/her will find it enjoying and satisfying. This sort of pleasure is not a good thing. One must be happy for one's success and feel mild or lonely whenever one feels depressed.
Pleasure among good people is a simple thing. They can see if a person has attained the state of pleasure if he/she is satisfied on his/her life. Having friends who can be trusted gives pleasure and enjoyment as well. Having attained a lot of success is a form of pleasure as well. These things given helps a person attain the pleasures of life. But some people enjoy the misfortune of others as a form of pleasure.
Pleasure from misfortune are deeds appreciated only by people who had a grudge or anger against the person involved. Upon achieving misfortune, the person who got a deep grudge or vengeance against him/her will find it enjoying and satisfying. This sort of pleasure is not a good thing. One must be happy for one's success and feel mild or lonely whenever one feels depressed.
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